Revert "vfs: properly and reliably lock f_pos in fdget_pos()"

This reverts commit 0be0ee71.

I was hoping it would be benign to switch over entirely to FMODE_STREAM,
and we'd have just a couple of small fixups we'd need, but it looks like
we're not quite there yet.

While it worked fine on both my desktop and laptop, they are fairly
similar in other respects, and run mostly the same loads.  Kenneth
Crudup reports that it seems to break both his vmware installation and
the KDE upower service.  In both cases apparently leading to timeouts
due to waitinmg for the f_pos lock.

There are a number of character devices in particular that definitely
want stream-like behavior, but that currently don't get marked as
streams, and as a result get the exclusion between concurrent
read()/write() on the same file descriptor.  Which doesn't work well for
them.

The most obvious example if this is /dev/console and /dev/tty, which use
console_fops and tty_fops respectively (and ptmx_fops for...