NFS: Fix open coded versions of nfs_set_cache_invalid() in NFSv4

nfs_set_cache_invalid() has code to handle delegations, and other
optimisations, so let's use it when appropriate.

Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@hammerspace.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>